I dumped a guy for telling me to 'calm down' (and I'd do it again)
It was an everyday conversation. We were both just messing around. But it ended with me deciding to end a friendship with a male friend. I can’t remember our exact topic but we were kidding with one...
View Article6 reasons masturbating with your partner can be hotter than sex
Mutual masturbation is one of the most common, sexy time activities I suggest to the women I work with. This idea usually shocks them. After all, most people think of masturbation as something you do...
View ArticleSexist study points to 'agreeable' women as the reason some couples have more...
There are so many factors that might contribute to why you and your partner are having more or less sex that it seems absurd to try to distill it down to one thing. However, since everyone loves a sex...
View ArticleSex while using a menstrual cup is possible, but it comes with a few warnings
A menstrual cup can be a great, more environmentally friendly alternative to tampons and pads, but it does come with certain drawbacks. It can be a huge mess to change, women occasionally have problems...
View ArticleLet's give the 'crazy cat lady' stereotype a rest for the sake of all women
“Are you a cat person?” The question went up on my Facebook wall shortly after I’d posted a story about feral cat colonies in New York City being pushed out of their urban habitats by the proliferation...
View ArticleWeekly love horoscopes: May 30 – June 5
Image: SheKnows Everything about him looks good on paper. He's easy on the eyes, comes from a reputable background, and he makes a respectable salary. So why don't you feel anything for him? Probably...
View ArticleMeditation helped me finally follow through with my divorce
After leaving my husband and moving across the country with our daughter when she was just 6 weeks old, friends and family suggested I “talk to someone” about the sudden transition into single...
View ArticleNo, I'm not afraid to be single in my 40s
When I recently ended my 11-year relationship, the reactions ran the gamut. One friend asked, “Did you cheat?” Another asked if my sex writing led to our demise. (It did not, though a lack of sex may...
View ArticleThe geekiest marriage proposal ever will make you tear up with happiness
Shane Birkinbine figured out the secret to winning the proposal — and the love — game by creating a custom level to Super Mario Bros. using Nintendo's Super Mario Maker. He filmed as his girlfriend,...
View ArticleWe don't talk enough about how anxiety disorders change our sex lives
I’ve always been a very sexual person. As soon as I hit puberty, I was fascinated by sex. My best friend and I talked about it all the time, putting our heads together to imagine what it would really...
View Article7 ways to not blow your wedding budget on save-the-dates and invitations
I sent away for the free samples and browsed hundreds of designs when deciding on our wedding stationary. Then I realized something: We were inviting over 300 people, meaning at least 150 save the...
View ArticlePeople who make nasty comments about marriage speak their truth, not yours
The snide, sarcastic and just plain rude comments from other people about marriage started pretty much the second after my husband slipped a ring on my finger. "Enjoy the last few years of happiness...
View ArticleGay male erotica turns me on — so what?
When I first started reading Sherlock fan fiction, I was resolutely against the whole Sherlock Holmes and John Watson romantic relationship scenario. I just didn't see it. Instead, I focused more on...
View ArticleDonald Trump is a threat to your sex life whether you realize it or not
From Megyn Kelly’s menstruation to pumping breast milk, Trump finds women and their bodies “disgusting.” Let us not forget women cards. He keeps saying that Hillary yells too loud: His vitriol knows no...
View ArticleI stand with Amber Heard because no one believed me either
When my ex-boyfriend killed himself last year, it was more than a tragedy — it was news. He was a well-known chef who taught children at a Harvard summer school and volunteered at local farms. He was...
View ArticleNifty rings alert you when your sig-o watches your show without you
There's nothing worse than finding out your partner has cheated on you... with the TV show you two had sworn you'd always watch together. If you've ever been in a relationship for longer than a few...
View ArticleRevenge sex is said to bring closure but sexperts have a better way
If recent country music is any indicator, revenge sex is on trend. Take Blake Shelton’s single “Came Here to Forget” about two people who get it on to get back at their exes. Ring any bells? Then...
View ArticleHusband's incredibly raw painting totally sums up the reality of love
When Alix Needham realised her artist husband James had never depicted them both in the same painting, he soon set out to change that — and the result is an incredible work of art that has gone viral...
View ArticleOnly Coco Austin could make scheduling sex sound this hot
Coco Austin and Ice T have always had what appears to be a fairly hot marriage. The long-together couple seem to revel in each other and definitely strike me as having more longevity than most other...
View Article2,000 years of sex toy history in under 2 minutes
Believe it or not, vibrators have been around for thousands of years. This would've come as a great shock to gentlemen of the 19th century and before who honestly believed that "ladies" had no sex...
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