It's a crazy week for love when Jupiter, the "anywhere but here" planet, forms an opposition to Uranus, the planet of revolution and change. Many people will be waking up to breakup texts or notes left on the pillow informing them that feelings have changed and that their relationship is over. It will be totally out of the blue and completely unexpected. If you happen to be the one left in the lurch, give your partner plenty of leeway. Impulses to break free and to be somebody completely different seldom work out if done on a whim. In fact, he or she will probably be back before you know it. If, however, this is something you've been secretly praying for, move to close the door ASAP because this person just handed you your ticket to freedom.
Careful. You're unusually susceptible to lost causes while Mars is under the influence of Neptune (Dec. 26 to Jan. 4). Neptune tends to water down the defenses of whatever planet it conjoins. Born under Mars, you're usually drawn to buff, virile types with a lower body fat percentage than you. However, Neptune's influence could lead you into the orbit of artsy types with twiggy limbs, sallow expressions and a two-pack-a-day habit. Snap out of it! Adopt an animal rescue if you have to. It won't cost as much and the pooch or kitty will always be grateful for the love you give.
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The new moon in Capricorn on Dec. 28 favors communications from long distances or from long ago. Don't be surprised if you hear from that old boyfriend you dated back in high school or that foreign exchange student who broke your heart when he had to return to his own country. Part of the impulse to reach out comes from nostalgia, but the greater motivation is to make things right. Maybe it's the sentiment that moves you, a long overdue explanation or a heartfelt apology. In any case, this exchange will wind up being one of the best Christmas presents you could hope to have.
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So why do you change the subject whenever he tries to ask you out? You can tell he's interested, but there's a part of you that continually pulls away. Are you afraid of getting hurt? Or are you afraid of hurting him? Chances are, it's the latter given your track record of short-term romances. But if there's anything that Mercury retrogrades are good for (Mercury turned retrograde on Dec. 19 and will be backward in the sky until Jan. 8) it's that they will lead you down a path that you wouldn't normally take. Following that path right now could make all the difference.
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What's the harm in hoping for the best? Neptune is the planet of visualization in astrology. One can never tell if Neptune is tantalizing you with its promise of wish fulfillment or if it's inspiring you with its wistful scenarios of the way things could be, but one thing is clear: If you don't strive, you will never arrive at your heart's desire. Find the courage to hope for the best and you may just get it when it comes to love and romance from Dec. 26 to Jan. 4. Who knows? This may even give you a whole new outlook on life.
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You'd do anything for your lover. You're loyal, protective and are always there with a smile or a shoulder to lean on. Nevertheless, you may flinch at what's asked of you this week. There's a thin line between a tall order and sacrifice and he'll cross it on Dec. 28. It won't be easy saying "no," but you must be true to yourself. It's a core value, which is why you have a deep and abiding respect for people being true to themselves. That isn't always easy, but it's the glue that holds your relationship together. It's also why you'll work through your differences.
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This would be a good time to give your lover space and yourself some breathing room. He's going through a rough transition in which he feels uncertain about his future and this is triggering all of your abandonment anxieties. And we all know how psycho you can get when that happens. Your response will be to draw up a series of easy-to-follow action steps and strategies, but that just won't translate to him right now. His headspace is more sullen and philosophical. What it comes down to in the end is something you already know: He's the only one who can sort out his own life.
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The impulse to walk out will be very strong on Dec. 26 when Jupiter opposes Uranus. Convinced that your partner doesn't get you anymore, you feel like your "real" life lies with someone else. That might be true except that Jupiter really pumps up the volume on the self-righteousness when it's in your sign. It makes you deaf to reason and indifferent to entreaties. The energies are so strong you'll probably have to leave (at least for now), but don't slam the door on the way out. Cooler energies prevail in February when you'll be wondering if you can go back the way you came.
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A certain someone will have to work a lot harder if he's serious about wanting to win back your trust, and given what you've seen so far, you're not inclined to hold your breath. Yet Mars passing under the rays of Neptune this week will put you in a rare mood to forgive and even forget. Born under a water sign, empathy and compassion come easily for you. And it's because you know what it's like to be on both sides of the fence — to hurt and to be hurt — that you will eventually soften your position and cut this person some slack.
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Beware of getting drawn back into a family pattern that you recently struggled free from. Mars conjunct Neptune on Dec 31 shows that a parent or sibling will be playing the guilt card once again, and you could wind up jumping through hoops trying to please this person to no avail. The definition of insanity is repeating something in the hopes that the outcome might be different this time. Don't do this to yourself. Make peace with whatever you feel you did wrong. Chances are, it's not as bad as all that. And even if it were, it still doesn't justify someone manipulating you.
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Sometimes it's not about finding the right guy, but rather opening up your heart and letting the right guy find you. The power of attraction isn't always about what you put out there in terms of your looks, smarts and earning power. It's not about packaging, nor does it work as your personal advertising campaign. What people find attractive in other people are the things that they like about themselves. If you're at ease with your heart, you will find someone who will be just as comfortable with his. This is the miracle that the sun/Neptune sextile on Dec. 30 will bring if you let it.
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You're not used to people seeing you as the answer to their prayers. It's flattering, gratifying and even a little intimidating, but at the end of the day, it's still a good feeling to have because Aquarians see themselves as bringing light and enlightenment into every life they touch. However, you may not be ready for all the feelings of neediness, possessiveness and jealousy that accompany this. Now that people have recognized your merits and pinned their hopes on you, they're going to be personally invested in protecting their own interests. This is something to watch out for over the next four weeks.
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Mars conjunct Neptune on the 31st followed by an occultation by the moon shows a paramour pulling a disappearing act. Again. After weeks of slowly moving closer to each other, he'll stop responding to messages and texts. Your gut says to leave well enough alone, but you should reach out to him anyway. It doesn't have to be confrontational, just conversational. Chances are, he's feeling overwhelmed by other areas of his life that have nothing to do with you. These are probably things that he doesn't feel like discussing now; however, just knowing that you're there to listen will encourage him to open up one day.
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