Did anyone ever tell you that you make love like a man? This isn't necessarily a physical thing — although it could be, given the popularity of toys and role-playing these days. Actually, it's more of an emotional thing. It stems from the fact that you were born under Mars, which means that once the lovemaking's over, you're out of bed and onto the next thing. This week's planetary transits encourage you to stay in bed a little longer with him so that you can cuddle together and drink in some more of that quiet time. This will do a lot to deepen your bond.
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How do you talk to a loved one when you feel like he's on the brink of making a disastrous decision? You talk to him in the way that you wish someone would talk to you when you feel afraid and unsupported. You already know that getting pushy, naggy or provocative won't work. You also know that you can't stand by and watch him make a mistake. Be comforting, reassuring and persistent. He's not as stubbornly set in his ways as you might think. You'll be amazed by how quickly he'll open up to you given the right sort of gentle nudging.
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It looks like you're having a lot of fun playing footsie with a potential paramour. Both of you are trading double-entendres, innuendoes and stolen glances that were never truly stolen, like a couple of wisecracking characters from a romantic comedy. Nevertheless, you're probably wondering where this whole thing is going, and Sept. 30 is the perfect day to drop your fork (metaphorically speaking) and meet under the table for an off-the-record conversation. Is he spoken for or otherwise engaged? Probably. But he's also been eager to change his relationship status for a while. You may be the compelling reason he's been looking for.
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Last April was an amazing time. Maybe you met the love of your life or your relationship got a lot more serious. And because nothing comes easily, this was also when your paramour asked you to be patient and to trust him while he took care of "unfinished business." It's in your nature to be nurturing and supportive, but it isn't easy to tell if this helps someone to get his act together or invites him to take advantage of your good graces. Pluto coming out of retrograde says it's time to put everything on the table and see where things stand between you.
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Careful flying to the rescue of a sibling or friend because it could land you in hot water this week. We're all familiar with the phrase that no good deed goes unpunished, and this could be the undesired result of your heroic efforts. Either your support will be seen as interfering by the boyfriend or it will raise the hackles of suspicion and make this person blame you for all her problems. Any way you cut it, it's a lose-lose situation, which means that you're better off avoiding this altogether. Offer advice and support at a safe distance, preferably by text or email.
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On Sept. 26, you'll wake up and smell the coffee. This is when Pluto comes out of retrograde in that part of your solar chart that pertains to affairs of the heart. For months, you have refrained from letting yourself get emotionally naked. Maybe it was your work schedule that provided you with a cloakroom full of excuses or the ever-changing ensemble of pressing engagements that kept you otherwise occupied. Or maybe you were just testing him. In any case, Pluto's change of direction brings a change of heart for you. It looks like you're finally recognizing a good thing when you have it.
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Your sex appeal increases when your ruling planet, Venus, is in Scorpio. Scorpio is the sign of sex and money, so you can expect these twin themes to dominate your life through Oct. 17. It will be fun having men lavish love, attention and riches on you, but remember that there's always a hidden agenda. Venus in Scorpio tends to bring out people's covetous and obsessive sides. Men will want you for themselves and this could get ugly if you aren't careful. Word to the wise: Don't lead anyone on for the sake of leading them on or you could get stung.
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Venus trine Neptune this week transforms you into a sex magnet. Scorpio is the zodiac sign of secret intrigues and covert operations, so Venus here will add an element of danger and risk to your love affairs. This can be a lot of fun if you know what you're doing. Taking a walk on the wild side can be thrilling and exhilarating. However, if you don't feel confident in your command of the romantic situation, then you may want to tone it down for the next three weeks. You don't want to take a wrong turn and suddenly find yourself out of your depth.
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Everyone likes the guy you're seeing, and they think that you're the luckiest person on the planet. He's great-looking, makes a good salary, helps old ladies across the street and rescues cats from trees. So why does this leave you unmoved? The simple answer is that you have suffered a lot of heartbreak over the years, and you're probably still shell-shocked. Let's face it. It's going to take a while longer for you to lower your guard and learn to trust again. Meanwhile, what's nice is that he's not going anywhere and wants to prove to you that he's not like the rest.
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Your relationship may look the same on the outside, but there's been a lot of growth on the inside. You're more relaxed with him, confident, and you're even allowing yourself to have fun. These changes that take place in our interior landscape are often connected to Pluto reversing direction. Pluto turned retrograde in Capricorn last April and on Sept. 26 it will be moving forward again. You will feel as if you are emerging from your cocoon. You're no longer that distant, aloof person that you used to be. Love has worked its magic and you're ready for people to see the "new" you.
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Generosity of spirit could lead you to forgive too prematurely or to welcome prodigal types back into your life before they've sampled their just desserts. It's one thing to think the best of people and quite another to look the other way when it comes to their less-than-stellar track records. This is something that will come up when the moon occults Mercury on Thursday. Loyal loved ones and friends will no longer stand by while you continue to favor those who have been fair-weather companions. It's time to show appreciation to those who truly matter and to stop taking them for granted.
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You're all shark and no minnow while Venus is in predatory Scorpio (now until Oct. 17). People who think of you as a sweet little guppy will be surprised when you start baring piranha-like teeth. Venus in Scorpio encourages you to set your sights higher, target what you want (nothing under six figures) and not to stop until you get your man. There will be times when you'll look in the mirror and ask, "Who is this person?" But enjoy it while it lasts because the cosmic climate will change and you can go back to life in the koi pond if you prefer.
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