Your partner or spouse isn't much fun these days. It looks like he's going through a heavy time and he's probably withdrawn and sulky. This won't sit well with a Mars-ruled sign like yours. You believe that people should express what's going on and if they can't do that, then they should get over themselves. Unfortunately that solution won't work right now. This would be a good time to take yourself and your feelings out of the equation, give him his space, and just let him be. He'll come talk to you when he feels ready.
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You don't want money to be the sticking point in your relationship, but it is. And this isn't because you believe that men should be the breadwinners. You've been bringing home the bacon for longer than you can remember so you're OK with making more than he does. That said, you do insist that he pull his own weight otherwise you feel taken for granted and like you're being taken advantage of. Have a sit down talk with him on the 25th. He doesn't have to bring a six-figure salary to the table, but he should bring something.
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Your lover is going through a rough passage where he feels lost and adrift. Being the hands-on Gemini that you are, you will naturally want to shower him with all kinds of useful advice and links to informative websites, but don't. What works for you doesn't necessarily work for him so try being a sounding board instead. Ask him questions aimed at helping him to clarify what he truly wants and you will lead him out of the confusion that sun/Neptune squares often bring. You can look forward to the mental fog lifting on Dec. 4.
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Your heart and your head couldn't be more divided which is why you don't want to push yourself now. You're being pressured to make some larger-than-life decisions. Unfortunately you don't really have anything substantial to counterbalance the push from all sides other than a vague feeling that you might be better off somewhere else. Whether this is a true pull or wishful thinking is hard to tell. In any case you should wait with any major personal decisions until Dec. 4 when it looks like your heart and head will be back on the same page again.
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Being led up the garden path has never been so fun and you are enjoying every moment of it. Friends, however, are appalled and they will do everything in their power to knock some sense into your head. They don't want to see you disappointed or hurt. But they won't be successful because this week's sun/Neptune square shows that you are completely under a certain person's spell. This is fine as long as you don't tell yourself any stories about what's going on. Take it for what it is and you'll have a wonderfully strange and romantic interlude.
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You know that you shouldn't be doing what you're doing but you won't be able to help yourself. That's because Neptune, the planet of glamour and illusion, will be exerting a hypnotic influence on you all week. Faced with an array of tempting offers and irresistible prospects, you will want to make a grab for each and every one of them. The more forbidden the fruit, the better! Indulge yourself (you know you're going to anyway) but be smart about it. And by smart, you should take the necessary precautions and make a point of covering your tracks.
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It's hard to know what to think when Venus opposes revolutionary Uranus on Nov. 23. You've been looking for an excuse to break out of your rut and this planetary energy will bring it in the guise of someone who will rock your world. But don't expect this person to stick around. That's because he's the catalyst for change and not relationship material. It's his job to shake things up. Not only will you break just about every rule you said you'd never break, but you may even wind up having the time of your life because of it.
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You will always defend the man you love. Scorpios are fiercely loyal. But what if the man you love pulls a stunt that lands him in hot water with loved ones and friends? Will you defend him then? This is the thorny predicament you face this week when you have to think long and hard about what serves his best interests. Defending him means he will do this again while letting him face the consequences ensures that he won't. It's a painful lesson to be sure, but you aren't doing him any favors by shielding him from his own missteps.
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It's hard to tell if the guy you're seeing is emotionally wounded or damaged goods. Emotionally wounded means that he just needs time to heal and being the spirited fire sign that you are, you can think of all kinds of creative things to do to help get him back up on his feet. However, damaged goods are damaged goods and no amount of sexual healing, emotional sympathy, late night talks and spiritual communion can turn that around. Give things until the second week of December to see if there's any sign of improvement. If not, then move on.
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You've asked a lot of loved ones and friends recently and they've been enormously forgiving when it's come to last-minute rain checks, unreturned phone calls and unanswered emails. What happens over time isn't so much the buildup in resentment as it is the growing belief that you just don't care. And if you don't care about preserving your relationship, then why should they? Your looming deadlines will always be there, but the people who matter most won't. It would be a good idea for you to make room for them in your schedule. You can start this week.
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It feels like you can't do anything right these days and guess what? You can't. Now this doesn't mean that you're the one who keeps falling short. What it means is that a loved one doesn't know what he wants — which is why he keeps changing the rules and revising the expectations. Do yourself a favor and stop trying to make things better. The sooner you stop, the sooner he'll realize that he is like a rudderless ship going in circles. Then — and only then — can you start to have a conversation about plotting a future course.
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You'll be wondering what people think of you this week. Being born under Neptune makes you a natural screen for others' projections, but you might not like some of the things that are being featured at your expense. You may have to deal with accusations of being elusive, deceptive or even out and out lying. This will be especially painful coming from loved ones. But this is what happens when the sun squares Neptune which is your ruling planet. Try not to take it seriously (an admittedly tall order!) and rest assured that the effect will pass by Dec. 4.