People need a compelling reason to be with each other. Otherwise the relationship will fall apart. Some think that compelling reason is sex. Others think that it's fulfilling each other's needs, sharing common interests or raising a family. You may not have a clear idea of what you want in a relationship now — especially given the wild mood swings of the past few weeks. Used to rescuing men from themselves, perhaps it's time for men to return the favor? The fellow you're seeing right now may not be what you're looking for, but he's exactly what you need.
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You know you're right and that your lover is wrong. You know that the two of you are meant to be despite his misgivings and objections. This conviction of yours probably flies in the face of circumstances, family members' opinions and the consensus of friends. It probably even goes against your better judgment. Nevertheless you know you're right and the stars agree. It's not every day when you have both Venus and Jupiter telling Saturn to stand down. What's the next step? Keep the faith and you will see everything fall into place in the fall.
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Sometimes you have to go backwards in order to go forward. This explains why you're seeing your ex, going out with someone you know is no good or repeating an all too familiar relationship pattern. Emotional comfort zones are hard things to leave. They're kind of like giving up a really great bad habit. No one wants to do it unless they absolutely have to. Well, the Mercury/Saturn square on Aug. 6 says that that time has come. You can either withdraw slowly or go cold turkey. The stars advise that it's best to be quick about it.
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The Mars/Saturn trine on Aug. 6 pushes you to wrap up unfinished business with your lover. This doesn't mean you're getting back together. It's clear that you have both moved on. But it does mean finding a way to uncouple gracefully. If you owe him money, pay it. If you have to sell a property, then be fair. And if you have children together, then work out a reasonable visitation plan. You may no longer be lovers, but you will continue to be in each other's lives which is why you want to end on an up note.
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Mars, the planet of "that's what I want and I want it NOW" enters Leo on Aug. 8. Mars is the planet of sex and passion. It's great for hook-ups, but it's not exactly stellar in the romance department. It's like being asked to sit down to a nine-course meal when all you really want is a big fat juicy burger because you're starving. This is why you have to be really clear on what you want over the next seven weeks. Are you really looking for love or play? Mars in Leo is all about instant gratification.
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Relations get decidedly chilly on Aug. 6. This is when you'll see that guy you've been flirting with give you the cold shoulder, your best guy friend act as if you don't exist or co-workers suddenly change the subject when you try to make conversation. What's up? You have the Mercury/Saturn square to blame which means that the culprit is a rumor, a misfired tweet or something you said that's been taken completely out of context. You'll want to get to the bottom of this as soon as possible. To ignore it would be putting yourself at risk.
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Financial strain takes its toll on your relationship on Aug. 5. The sad part is that you believe in him and really want him to succeed. Unfortunately he's not getting the message that his venture or project is not only slow out of the starting gate, it's dead in the water. This puts you in the painful position of having to pull the plug on it. Do so firmly and gently and give him time to get over it. He may not sound like it, but he knows you're right to do what you have to do.
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Retrograde Saturn in Scorpio shows that you're the one who's putting the brakes on things moving forward. Is this really what you want? It's true that you've experienced a lot of heartbreak when it comes to love and things haven't always ended well. It's why you test as much as you do. However testing doesn't really prove much of anything. One can always find reasons to question, suspect and mistrust. But sometimes these reasons can eclipse the love that you feel. Side with your hopes and not your fears and you'll see how this makes all the difference.
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After years of undelivered promises, bad breaks and serial reversals it's nice to see that you have your confidence back. And with confidence comes allure and appeal. You have Jupiter in Leo to thank for all of this. Jupiter's reign in the zodiac sign of the heart began last July and ends on Aug. 11. Hopefully you're already in a relationship. If not? Well you've got until next week to get yourself one. This may sound impossible but chances are the love you seek is closer than you think if you would only give it a chance.
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There's something to be said for having the patience to tolerate the intolerable longer than most people would have. It gives you credibility and clout so that when you're ready to say enough is enough, then everyone will have to listen. That day will be Aug. 6. It's time to set a demanding lover, a self-absorbed partner or a delinquent friend straight. But don't turn this into a bout of airing grievances. This is your opportunity to list the specific ways that this person can improve the relationship. Don't underestimate the power of shame to get what you want.
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Mars moves into that part of your solar chart that pertains to relationships on Aug. 8. Mars is a cage rattler so expect flare-ups with your spouse as well as with a business partner or client you work closely with. It's important to know how to fight in a relationship. Not fighting to win, but fighting to understand each other in ways that don't come naturally. The next seven weeks won't be easy, but the struggle to connect — along with the camaraderie that results from it — shows that Mars is all about forging the ties that bind.
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If you want your lover to stop treating you like a child, then you need to stop behaving like one. Retrograde Venus square Saturn in Scorpio on Aug. 5 is bringing out all of your unresolved "daddy" issues. You could be projecting all of your feelings of being judged, ignored and infantilized on to your significant other. It's why you need to ask yourself: Are you being bratty, outrageous or irresponsible? And if so, why? Saturn is a pretty rough truth teller but once you accept your part in the matter, then you can change things for the better.