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Careful. You're unusually susceptible to lost causes while Mars is under the influence of Neptune (Jan. 19 – 25). Neptune tends to water down the defenses of whatever planet it conjoins. Born under Mars, you're usually drawn to buff, virile types with a lower body fat percentage than you. However, Neptune's influence could lead you into the orbit of arty types with twiggy limbs, sallow expressions and a two pack a day habit. Don't fall for it! Adopt an animal rescue instead. It won't cost as much and the pooch (or kitty) will always be grateful for the love you give.
Up next: Taurus horoscope
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You'll be checking out the merchandise this week while ruling planet Venus is opposite Jupiter. It's great if you're single because you'll be getting a lot of flirty glances back. However, it could be upsetting if you're already spoken for because you'll wonder if you're really feeling that unfulfilled. What can be said other than it's a Venus thing? It wouldn't matter if you were shtupping Chris Hemsworth, you'd still ask yourself if you could do better. It's the nature of Venus to window shop. And as everyone knows just because you look doesn't mean you'll buy.
Up next: Gemini horoscope
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So why do you change the subject when he tries to ask you out? You can tell he's interested but there's a part of you that continually pulls away. Are you afraid of getting hurt or are you afraid of hurting him? Chances are it's the latter given your track record of episodic romances. But if there's anything that Mercury retrogrades are good for (Mercury will be retrograde from Jan. 21 – Feb. 11) it's that they will lead you down a road that you wouldn't normally take. Following that path right now could make all the difference.
Up next: Cancer horoscope
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Love and sex have always been intertwined, but lately you've been wondering if it's more like they're handcuffed to each other. On Jan. 20 the sun enters Aquarius. Aquarius rules that part of your solar horoscope that pertains to sex. Free thinking and experimental, it shows that there's a side of you that's willing to try anything once. You'll be feeling the impulse to expand your horizons (or at least your repertoire) over the next four weeks. Now you may assume that you can't share this with him, but give it a go. He probably thought you'd never ask.
Up next: Leo horoscope
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It's not every day when you meet someone who's immune to your charms. You're used to dazzling guys with your fabulousness. However, Venus opposite Jupiter on Jan. 19 shows that he won't be an easy score. He has his own circle of warring wannabe girlfriends. In fact he may come across as being remarkably disinterested and this could lead you to yield the field. But don't you know when a guy is playing with your head in order to find a way to your heart? Just relax and be you. He'll slide up beside you soon enough.
Up next: Virgo horoscope
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This would be a good time to give your lover some space and yourself some breathing room. He's going through a rough transition where he feels very uncertain about his future and this is triggering all of your abandonment anxieties. Your response is to draw up a series of action steps and strategies but that just won't translate to him right now. He's in more of a sullen and philosophical frame of mind. What it comes down to in the end is something you already know: He's the one who has to sort out his own life.
Up next: Libra horoscope
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You may surprise everyone — as well as yourself — with news of a radical change of heart on Jan. 20. A new moon in Aquarius in that part of your solar chart that pertains to romance usually signals an affable affair; however, this is a "super moon" and super moons pack a heavy emotional wallop. The nature of this is more revelatory than revolutionary — something akin to the realization that you boarded a bus heading in the wrong direction and that you need to get off of it pronto. You'll want to grab a transfer ticket on Jan. 25.
Up next: Scorpio horoscope
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A certain someone needs to work a lot harder to win back your trust and from what you've seen so far you're not inclined to hold your breath. Yet Mars passing under the rays of Neptune this week will put you in a rare mood to forgive and even forget. Born under a water sign, empathy and compassion come easily for you. And it's because you know what it's like to be on both sides of the fence — to hurt and to be hurt — that you will eventually soften your position and cut this person some slack.
Up next: Sagittarius horoscope
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Beware of getting drawn back into a family pattern that you just struggled free from. Mars conjunct Neptune on Jan. 19 shows that a parent or a sibling will be playing the guilt card once again and you could wind up jumping through hoops to try to please them. The definition of insanity is repeating something in hopes that the outcome will be different. Don't do this to yourself. Make peace with whatever you feel you did wrong. Chances are it's not all that bad. And even if it were, it still doesn't justify someone manipulating you.
Up next: Capricorn horoscope
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You will be seized by an impulse to give and give generously when the new moon occults in Aquarius on Jan. 20. It will be so unexpected that you'll wonder what's come over you. There comes a time in life when you make the switch from looking after your own interest to looking out after the interests of others. It's kind of like making the switch from child to parent. This new sense of plenty may not be reflected in your bank account, but it will resonate in the lives you touch. This sort of goodwill will reward you tenfold.
Up next: Aquarius horoscope
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You need to stop acting surprised when a fellow says he's attracted to you. Aquarians have a hard time acknowledging that they can have that effect. You want people to be drawn to you as a person and not just your looks, but there's nothing wrong with having a beautiful body to go with that beautiful mind. Why should it be either/or when you can present the entire package? This is the marvelous lesson that Venus in Aquarius has to teach. Next time someone compliments you on your appearance, just say thanks. It makes for the perfect icebreaker.
Up next: Pisces horoscope
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Mercury retrograde on Jan. 21 shows a paramour pulling a disappearing act. After weeks of slowly moving closer to each other he may abruptly stop responding to your messages and texts. Survival instincts say leave well enough alone, but you should reach out to him anyway to see what's up. It doesn't have to be confrontational; just conversational. Chances are he's feeling besieged by other pressing matters in his life. These are probably things that he doesn't feel like discussing now; however, just knowing that you're there to listen will encourage him to open up one day.