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Sometimes wanting something that you can't have is good. It makes the heart grow in ways it wouldn't have if you satisfied that craving or fulfilled that desire right away. This isn't something your friends will understand. They may even try to talk you out of your new amour given how complicated the previous one was. Nevertheless you have formed an attachment to someone who can't be with you now and that story is just beginning to unfold. It won't be the exercise in futility you fear. It could even become one of the greatest romances you've ever experienced.
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You need to have a talk with your partner as to whether or not the future is a place that you can get to from here. But you will have to bring more to the table than gripes and grievances. If anything be prepared to discuss intimate matters regarding trust, sharing and sex. The Venus/Saturn conjunction in Scorpio on Nov. 12 will challenge you to explore those dark corners of the psychic closet that you would rather avoid. It's hard, but what you get in return may be a new lease on the life of your relationship.
Up next: Gemini horoscope
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Your romantic life comes back online when Venus enters Sagittarius on Nov. 16. This brings to an end weeks of frustration where just about every guy you met had either just begun a relationship or was getting out of one. You've played rebound girl one too many times to go down that road again. Thankfully Venus is heading in a more lively direction over the next three weeks. Not only will your dance card be full, but you may even have a beau to snuggle up next to in front of the Yule log this year.
Up next: Cancer horoscope
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This is a tough time for your relationship. Your partner is going through a lot of intense things right now so he's bound to be preoccupied and self-absorbed. Don't let him retreat behind a wall. Even if he doesn't think he needs a shoulder to lean on, you need to let him know that what impacts him impacts you. It may feel like what you say goes in one ear and out the other, but trust that making the effort to stay connected will register. He may even reach out to you as early as next week.
Up next: Leo horoscope
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It doesn't matter how hard you work to bring home the bacon because loved ones will still find something wrong with everything you do. That's because you can't win for trying when Venus conjoins Saturn, the snark attack planet. But if you remember that the best defense is a good offense, then you might try going on the charm offensive. Agree with their criticisms, be sympathetic toward their positions, and let a smile be your umbrella. These rainy days of Saturn won't last forever. In fact, there should be a break in the cloud cover by the end of next week.
Up next: Virgo horoscope
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There are a lot of funky planetary mood shifts going on upstairs with Neptune coming out of retrograde this week. And it doesn't help that you've been getting a lot of mixed signals from your boyfriend lately. It's hard to tell if he's preoccupied or deploying his busy schedule as an exit strategy. The best advice is to leave the door open because if he's going to run, then he's going to run and you can't stop him. That said, if he's still around after Nov. 26 then you know he's serious and that you've got a good thing.
Up next: Libra horoscope
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You're not a big fan of ultimatums and you won't appreciate being served with one on Nov. 12. However, you know that this freak out is all about your lover's insecurity. Most people wouldn't put up with the shenanigans that you put up with, but then again you're not "most" people. Blessed with infinite patience and reason, you know that he'll eventually calm down. That said, you still have to resist caving into his demands while avoiding adding fuel to the fire. It's not an easy tightrope to walk, but if anyone can perform it without losing her balance, it's you.
Up next: Scorpio horoscope
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Don't do anything to make yourself the target of negative attention when Venus conjoins Saturn on Nov. 12. Venus is the planet of attraction in astrology. It's her job to get everyone to "like" your cosmic Facebook page. However, Venus can elicit more ire than desire when she's in close proximity to Saturn so you'll want to watch what you say. The best way to get through the next eight days is to turn the other cheek and be the bigger person. It won't be easy given the way that everyone will be pushing your emotional buttons, so be prepared.
Up next: Sagittarius horoscope
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It's hard being a Sagittarius because you believe that the life you're supposed to be living is happening somewhere else. It's why you dream of long journeys, spiritual pilgrimages and exotic locales. Wanderlust is great, but it can also lead you to overlook the love just outside your door. It's something to keep in mind when the sun squares Jupiter on Nov. 13. He may not speak another language or have a billion stamps on his passport, but that doesn't mean he won't want to hold hands with you while you gaze upon the Taj Mahal at sunset.
Up next: Capricorn horoscope
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It's rare when you feel tempted by forbidden fruit but you will on Nov. 10 when you pick up on some intense vibes emanating from your best friend's beau or your boss's client. He knows that you know that he's interested. This could lead to days of Sturm und Drang as you wrestle with the pros and cons. Most people would bed the guy and be over it, but you have a conscience and a heart. What does that mean for you? That forbidden fruit may remain out of reach, but you won't be far from his thoughts.
Up next: Aquarius horoscope
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You know you can be aloof and disinterested, but that doesn't mean you don't care. In fact, your tendency to breezily change the subject when things get too personal or to put people's questions back on them when they ask you what you want is meant to deflect attention away from your naked need for love and approval. Unfortunately people don't know that you feel things this deeply. It's why they challenge and provoke you as much as they do. Give them a little drama, love and affection. It's fun and it will make life a lot easier.
Up next: Pisces horoscope
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Your ruling planet Neptune comes out of retrograde on Nov. 15. This shows you'll be revisiting a situation that you thought you had said goodbye to. Actually you did say goodbye to it, but somebody else didn't. You're not really interested in talking to an ex. There's really nothing more to say. However, this person needs to make amends. Admittedly it's more for his sake than it is for yours, but let him make right. There's so much anger and bitterness in the world that it's always a good idea to mend rifts where and when you can.