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Usually you're the one who flies to the rescue, so it will come as a complete surprise to see a loved one fly to yours on Nov. 4. This concerns a predicament that you thought you had a grip on but didn't. Most people would be happy with this eleventh hour bailout, but not you. You don't like helplessness in others and you can be even more unforgiving when it comes to helplessness in yourself. You might want to lighten up and try to show some gratitude instead. Reciprocity is what love is all about after all.
Up next: Taurus horoscope
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Weeks ago you said you wanted to take things slow, but now it looks like you're pushing for your relationship to get more serious. What gives? Taurus people are complicated creatures when it comes to love. The earthy side of you is territorial and doesn't like to share whereas the Venus side of you can't sleep at night unless she's in a couple. This is why you'll give off mixed messages like "keep to your side of the fence" and "I can't live without you." Thankfully you'll find a happy medium when Venus squares Jupiter on Nov. 9.
Up next: Gemini horoscope
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You have a tendency to scrape your peas and carrots onto your partner's plate when you don't feel like dealing with things you find unappetizing. It's OK most of the time except for this week when the Venus/Jupiter square shows that you've dumped things on him too often. Maybe you've left him holding the bag, turned him into the fall guy when things went awry or even thrown him under the bus. In any case, you need to own up to your part of the equation. And if you know what's good for you, you will.
Up next: Cancer horoscope
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It looks as though a begrudging respect is starting to turn into something more. This is a rare miracle in a world of absolute likes and dislikes. Usually you don't change your mind about someone once it's been made up; however, weeks of being forced to work with a competitor or to spend time with someone you would have avoided has taught you more than tolerance. It's actually made this person more human, more approachable and even appealing. This could turn out to be one of the strangest beginnings to a relationship that you've ever experienced.
Up next: Leo horoscope
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If you expect him to come to you, then you'll be in for a very long wait. Men don't like being made to genuflect — even if they are head over heels in love. Jupiter in Leo adds to your natural charisma by making you more magnetic, charming and desirable than ever. However, Jupiter in Leo can also be a real ego inflator — making you high-handed and prideful at the worst of times. Don't let a recent fight become a bigger deal than it is. Instead use that good humor of yours to bring him closer.
Up next: Virgo horoscope
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This would be a good time to breathe and to remember that your lover is in love with you and not your idea of you. This isn't an easy concept for a Virgo to accept because you spend so much time outside of yourself looking in. Nevertheless the sun/Pluto sextile on Nov. 3 urges you to strip away those external expectations you impose on yourself and to exchange them for the very real intimacy that's on offer in your relationship now. After all, if you can't trust your lover with recognizing your authentic self, then who can you trust?
Up next: Libra horoscope
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On Nov. 4, the moon will occult Uranus in that part of your solar chart that pertains to lovers and spouses. Uranus is the planet of surprise upsets. It always brings a thunderbolt from out of the blue. However, the moon's occultation shows that it's your spouse — and not you — who will be thrown for a loop. He could receive news that knocks his world upside its head. Whether it's good or bad remains to be seen because one never knows until the emotional rollercoaster ride comes to a complete stop. This should be around Nov. 12.
Up next: Scorpio horoscope
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You don't like it when people try to get you to lighten up or want to bring you out of your shell. You're a Scorpio and Scorpios are famous for reveling in their alone time. Yes, you enjoy your one-on-one time with your lover but when you're not with him, you're happy by yourself. Unfortunately loved ones and friends have decided to climb down into your crawl space and to fetch you from the lower depths this week. They're worried that you're becoming anti-social. There's no use arguing. Play along and they'll leave you alone soon enough.
Up next: Sagittarius horoscope
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Sagittarians are famous for their generosity of spirit. You will give of yourself to just about anyone — even people you barely know. But what about the people you do know? There's a tendency to ignore loved ones and friends. Maybe it's familiarity that blinds you to their concerns or the innocent assumption that they can take care of themselves. In any case, the Venus/Jupiter square on Nov. 9 could result in an unexpectedly nasty exchange. Don't ignore the anger or try to brush it off. This person's been feeling neglected lately and needs some quality time with you.
Up next: Capricorn horoscope
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It's going to feel like your worst nightmare is playing out on Nov. 6 when the full moon in Taurus forms an opposition to Venus in Scorpio. This is when you find out from your beau that his ex will be making an unscheduled reappearance and that she's packing some pretty heavy emotional ammo. You can see the psychological manipulation from miles away, but he can't. Whatever her hold on him (and it's quite substantial), you need to fight for him. This is not the time to let your fear of rejection get the better of you.
Up next: Aquarius horoscope
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You're not letting that special someone be special. You're attracted to unique and eccentric types. You relate to their out of syncness and admire their refusal to be pigeonholed. However, there's another side of you that doesn't like your love partner to be too "out there" and that part of you will seek to muzzle him if he threatens to rock the boat too much. This is something you need to pay attention to when Venus squares Jupiter on Nov. 9. You don't want to stifle the very qualities you were drawn to in the first place.
Up next: Pisces horoscope
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You're focusing on the minuses rather than the pluses in your relationship. But is this because you spot red flags up ahead or are you reaching that point where you break up with somebody because things are getting too serious? It's hard to tell, which is why you don't want to make any decisions you'll regret. Mercury in Scorpio (Nov. 9-27) will ask a lot of unsettling questions that are meant to challenge familiar assumptions and to broaden your horizons. Commit to this process of discovery and your heart and head will wind up on the same page.